February 2012
If you’re a “nice guy” to a girl up until you realize she doesn’t want to date you, then go on about how she’s a cold shrew that friendzoned you and how no girls date nice guys, like, nah mate, girls do date nice guys. You just aren’t a nice guy. You’re a passive aggressive beta with internalized misogyny and a serious victim complex.
I fucking love this. Fuck the “friend zone” complex. That shit pisses me the fuck off.
show us the titties
Lol. Why would I show my tits to someone anon?!
Today fucking sucks and you fucking suck and I feel alone. I’m going to go from ‘upset and feelings hurt’ mode to ‘I’m pissed the fuck off’ mode reaaallll quick.
Stop Hating Your Body: A New Policy Against Self-Harm Blogs →
stophatingyourbody.tumblr.com
One of the great things about Tumblr is that people use it for just about every conceivable kind of expression. People being people, though, that means that Tumblr sometimes gets used for things that are just wrong. We are deeply committed to supporting and defending our users’…
This is reeeeeeeeeeeeeally stupid. Let’s sacrifice freedom of speech for people who “can’t keep themselves from cutting or throwing up because they saw it online wah wah”. Do I think people should advocate these things and wave them around like they’re something to be pround of? No, but banning these things from a website isn’t going to fix the problem.
People with eating disorders have a mental disorder as well. Making it so that they can’t post pictures on tumblr is NOT going to fix a damn thing. They will still log off of tumblr and have a disorder. And writing for a lot of people is therapeutic, so what, they aren’t going to allow people to write about it either? Because it could possibly trigger someone? So then that person has no other outlet? That just doesn’t make any sense. Having a disorder is a love hate fucking relationship with your mind and body. What may be seen as “glorifying” or “supporting” EDNOS could just be someones disorder talking. No one WANTS to have a terrible burden, but some people grow to love it out of desperation because that’s all they feel they have. And that’s why they go back to cutting or starving or binge/purging. I know there are blogs that say it’s “good” or “okay” or you “have to be skinny”, but that is still expression of themselves.
And this really doesn’t make any fucking sense that, “For example, joking that you need to starve yourself after Thanksgiving or that you wanted to kill yourself after a humiliating date is fine”. That IS also a trigger. Everyone is different. Some people are highly offending by the fact that people DO actually say shit like “omgahh I tooootally wanted to just kiilllll myself after he said that!!” or “Gawd, I onlyy ate like one sandwich today. im sooo totalllllyyy anorexiic n0w!! I should barf it up cuz im so FaT anyWaYss!” So who has the right to say that it’s fine for people to say that? They seriously need to step off this subject.
I think things like pro racism blogs and pro violence blogs and pro cat stomping blogs (god I hope there arent actually any of those) are something that people could be triggered by and actually have no therapeutic purpose and are the things that need to be banned and shut down.
I think that this is probably a fake, made up post like all the, “this is the staff and you need to reblog this so we can see who’s account is active otherwise you are getting deleted” posts. I don’t really think that the “staff” wrote this, but if they did, they are really traipsing on some thin lines and all over our free speech.
